Why I have never upgraded to this site. I thought I would throw my ideas out into the pool here. To start with I cannot tell who has viewed my profile. For all I know every view could be from charming beautiful ladies who live thousands of miles away from me or are too skinny. To cut to the chase here unless I pony up the fee I cannot tell who has viewed my profile. I also cannot tell the last log on date of potential search matches. Since nobody has sent me a message and even if they did  more...

Why I have never upgraded to this site. I thought I would throw my ideas out into the pool here. To start with I cannot tell who has viewed my profile. For all I know every view could be from charming beautiful ladies who live thousands of miles away from me or are too skinny. To cut to the chase here unless I pony up the fee I cannot tell who has viewed my profile. I also cannot tell the last log on date of potential search matches. Since nobody has sent me a message and even if they did I could not read it without paying I would have no way of gauging any interest. I think the smiles are free but since I have only recieved one it is just not worth it to pay the fee. There is too much behind the curtain to want to risk it with only a two responses of a known quantity on my profile. My info says it has been viewed hundreds of times and if I knew by who I may be inticed to send out a smile and if there were to be a return of interest I would buy in to gain acces to contact the individual. Also I noticed the search tool is dreadfully slow and other sites are much Much MUCH more efficent as to the realitive speed of the search capability.

A suggestion here would to be to allow a person to see who has viewed your profile and the last log in date of persons of interest and give greater access to advanced searching of profiles for free. If I knew what I wanted was here I would buy in but since so much is of an unknown quantity I cannot buy sight unseen. Also as mentioned before a faster hamster in the search engine would be nice too

Dravenhawk less...

What is too skinny? Sorry had to ask.

Hello,
I'm one of the gals that has viewed your profile. I am not a paying member either. I went back to check out some of your post on the forums & blogs, to find out what you're like. You seem to be sincere & polite. Unfortunately, I am not the kind of gal you're looking for (SSBBW). I'm not big enough, not tall enough or maybe not short enough, I do want to try to lose about 40 lbs., & I live so very far away from you. Such is Life. Just have to keep trying.
Which brings to mind a good   more...

Hello,
I'm one of the gals that has viewed your profile. I am not a paying member either. I went back to check out some of your post on the forums & blogs, to find out what you're like. You seem to be sincere & polite. Unfortunately, I am not the kind of gal you're looking for (SSBBW). I'm not big enough, not tall enough or maybe not short enough, I do want to try to lose about 40 lbs., & I live so very far away from you. Such is Life. Just have to keep trying.
Which brings to mind a good topic for my next blog...
Anyway, I wanted to give you a good quality comment on your blog & hope it gives you a chance at a free week or encourages other women to contact you.
Good Luck.
PG less...

I can understand your feelings. It is my feeling that if the guy INITIATES a wink to me and I wink back, I would expect that the guy would be the one to upgrade, if he were truly interested.

Just a side note, if someone initiates an email to you, you can respond to the email.

I do agree that you should be able to see the last log on date and who has viewed you. Maybe the webmasters will take that into consideration.

My personal advice is to invest in a month or 3 month package and consider it similar to buying a lottery ticket. You'll never win if you don't play. Or you can invest time in the blogs and see if you can be awarded a free week with a topic that others find interesting enough to warrant you at least 10 quality comments. Soemtimes you have to try and that involves the buy.
Good Luck to you.