Hi everyone, This is the blog I thought I would never write. Those of you that read my last blog know that I had started dating my ex wife after two years of being divorced. It was on February 21st of this year that I put my profile in hiding and wrote that I thought she and I was going to make it this time, well I guess not. I, at least, figured out why she keeps leaving me but that's something I am not ready to talk about on here yet.

I know I am not ready to show my profile yet but I am ho  more...

Hi everyone, This is the blog I thought I would never write. Those of you that read my last blog know that I had started dating my ex wife after two years of being divorced. It was on February 21st of this year that I put my profile in hiding and wrote that I thought she and I was going to make it this time, well I guess not. I, at least, figured out why she keeps leaving me but that's something I am not ready to talk about on here yet.

I know I am not ready to show my profile yet but I am hoping that working the blogs will help me to start to heal. I see some of the same people on here and to them I say Hello. I also see some new people and to them I say welcome to LF and good luck on your search. There was some people on here I had started becoming friends with and as a result of trying to make her happy I let these people slip out of my life, to them (ok the truth to her) I can only say I am so sorry. My wish for this person as well as my ex is much happiness. Looking forward to meeting new and old friends---Tom less...

Welcome back Tom! Sorry things didn't work out for you but glad you are back.

Nice to see you - shame about the circumstances of course.

Take a seat on the couch and if the blogs don't confuse the living daylights out of you maybe they'll serve to help a little!

(blogger formerly known as Biigbiirdy)

Sorry things didn't go the way you were hoping.
It's nice to see you again, just wish it was under better conditions. Keep your head up, have faith that things will get a little better each day.

Wow, sorry to hear of your hurt. I am glad you are back on as well, no matter who is in your life remember to keep your own personal space, keep connnected with friends old and new. They really help you through things. It is hard to know who to trust on here, hard enough to know in the real world. My ex is on here looking for a younger female and it looks as if he has found her. I wish her the best, she will, no doubt be hurt as well. Good luck to you.

Tom

I hope you feel free to join in again. I hope as hard as you last months have benn they give you the insight to be able to move on.

BigTom: HEY! How the heck are ya'! I am glad to see you back. There are only a few really good guys on the site to chat and blog with (they know who they are), so this gives us girls some more variety! (he he he) I'm still here, and still blogging. Hope to see you around! You were missed...--True

How awful for you. I'm so so sorry for the pain you feel.

I think every failed relationshiop teaches us something about ourselves and helps us to become the person we need to be before we meet our soulmate. It may be too soon to feel that, but you are one step closer.

And I'm not sure who your special friend was, but maybe, just maybe...?

Sorry that it didn't work out bigtom... and it will take some time for that wound to heal. Unfortunately, very few relationships work the second time around but at least you gave it a shot and it's not something you'll wonder "what if" about anymore. And you don't have to tell anyone here what the reason is it didn't work... it is none of our business... that is a private thing between you and her. Just try to learn from it, put it behind you and move on. Ms. Right is out there for  more...

Sorry that it didn't work out bigtom... and it will take some time for that wound to heal. Unfortunately, very few relationships work the second time around but at least you gave it a shot and it's not something you'll wonder "what if" about anymore. And you don't have to tell anyone here what the reason is it didn't work... it is none of our business... that is a private thing between you and her. Just try to learn from it, put it behind you and move on. Ms. Right is out there for you... just be patient and you'll find her. Good to see you back! less...

Quoting: Originally posted by bigtom77 Hi everyone, This is the blog I thought I would never write. Those of you that read my last blog know that I had started dating my ex wife after two years of being divorced. It was on February 21st of t...

Sorry things didn't work out for you and your ex, but it's nice to see you back.  more...

Quoting: Originally posted by bigtom77 Hi everyone, This is the blog I thought I would never write. Those of you that read my last blog know that I had started dating my ex wife after two years of being divorced. It was on February 21st of this year that I put my profile in hiding and wrote that I thought she and I was going to make it this time, well I guess not. I, at least, figured out why she keeps leaving me but that's something I am not ready to talk about on here yet. I know I am not ready to show my profile yet but I am hoping that working the blogs will help me to start to heal. I see some of the same people on here and to them I say Hello. I also see some new people and to them I say welcome to LF and good luck on your search. There was some people on here I had started becoming friends with and as a result of trying to make her happy I let these people slip out of my life, to them (ok the truth to her) I can only say I am so sorry. My wish for this person as well as my ex is much happiness. Looking forward to meeting new and old friends---Tom

Sorry things didn't work out for you and your ex, but it's nice to see you back. less...

Glad to see you still alive and kicking!